She didn’t win the farmer’s heart on camera. But weeks after Dylan’s shock split from Ally was confirmed, Scarlett has won the last word – and she’s not holding back.
She may not have been the woman who walked off into the sunset with farmer Dylan at the end of Farmer Wants A Wife – but Scarlett has made sure she’s the one walking off with the headline.
The 22-year-old polo player and horse handler was one of Dylan’s front-runners throughout her time on the Channel Seven hit, and even after leaving the farm she confirmed the farmer remained one of her “closest friends.”
But when news broke that Dylan and Ally – the contestant who ultimately won his heart – had called it quits, the internet did what the internet does best: it went into absolute meltdown. And one name was suddenly on everyone’s lips.
Scarlett.
Now, in a candid TikTok video posted on August 11, the fan favourite has addressed the rumours head-on, shut down the romance speculation for good, and answered the question viewers have been asking her “so many times” she lost count.
The question on everyone’s lips
In the video, Scarlett revealed one particular query kept landing in her inbox, prompting her to finally “put an end” to the speculation once and for all.
The question? The one every reality TV fan has been dying to know:
“Did anyone sleep together during the show?”
Scarlett’s answer was blunt, refreshing, and perhaps not all that surprising to anyone who has ever watched one man date five women under a single farmhouse roof.
“I can tell you right now, nobody did,” she shared.
“There are a lot of rules if you want to do that, and I think it’s a bit of a weird situation when a guy is dating five other girls.”
“You don’t really want to sleep with them until you know for sure that they’re the one you want at the end.
So nothing happened.”
Fans flooded the comments praising her honesty, with one writing:
“Finally, someone who tells it like it is!” while another added: “Okay but the rules explanation makes so much sense.”
‘Love is not everything’
But the bedroom gossip was only half the story.
Asked about the most important thing she learned during her time on the reality hit, Scarlett’s answer took a surprisingly heartfelt turn.
“The most important thing I learned is that I need to work on being more vulnerable and really not being scared to show my emotions,” she explained.
“At first I thought, I’m not going to show weakness. I can’t show weakness. I was scared to do it, but then I realised I needed to.”
“And even now, I still feel like I need to be definitive about saying how I feel, and I’m still struggling with that.”
Then came the line that has fans quoting her across social media.
“The hardest thing I learned is that love is not everything.
I don’t know how to phrase it. I don’t know how to say this.
It’s really hard. Love is not everything.
Love is not everything in the world,” she continued.
“Self-love is everything in the world.
That’s what I mean.
And to explain that further, if you don’t love yourself, you’ll sacrifice things for the person you love that you’re not ready to or don’t necessarily want to sacrifice.”
It’s a message that has struck a chord far beyond the reality TV bubble – and proof, if any were needed, that Scarlett left the farm with far more than a television credit.
The part she hated most
When asked about the part of the experience she liked least, Scarlett didn’t hesitate for a second: she hated “the ending.”
“It’s scary, and you get to a point where you just want to know what’s going to happen,” she explained.
“I mean, my fun was fading towards the end.”
She also admitted that opening up emotionally while the other women were still living on the farm was far harder than she expected – and that she wasn’t the only one who felt it.
“I think Ally and I really struggled with that a lot,” she revealed – a touching moment of solidarity between two women who, for weeks, were supposedly rivals for the same man’s affection.
So is a romance with Dylan off the table?
In a word: yes.
With Dylan now single following his confirmed split from Ally, thousands of fans had begun quietly shipping the farmer and his polo-playing bestie.
Scarlett has now made abundantly clear that the only thing growing on that farm is friendship.
“No, Dylan. I need to make this clear,” she said, looking straight down the camera lens.
“Dylan and I are best friends. I love Dylan as a friend, and our relationship will never go beyond that.”
For the shippers, it’s a bittersweet blow.
But if there’s one thing Scarlett has proven, it’s that she knows exactly what she wants – and what she doesn’t.
And right now, what she wants is honesty, self-love, and a life well away from farmhouse drama.
Honestly? We could all learn something from that.